Children who need love the most ask for it in the most unloving ways likewise for those children who need positive attention, coaching, encouragement and praise. The language of behavior as I like to call it. Students behavior is a form of communication. Teachers are encouraged to model, teach and use positive behavior and proactive preventable strategies. We learn from the Incredible Years Programme the benefits of setting students up for success through nuturing student/teacher relationships, through scaffolding the students evironments by providing predictable and safe learning classrooms and by providing attention, encouragement and praise. Rules should always be stated in terms of observable behaviors. I have made some fun positive behavior rules for teachers classrooms.