Today's children are constantly faced with making decisions that could affect them for years to come. Learning to say no and feel confident about the decision is vital to a child's well-being. Peer pressure is strong, sometimes stronger than that of a parent. Technology has brought other serious threats to children. By role playing ways to refuse a situation and teaching the thinking that occurs before agreeing to do something that they know they shouldn't do, boys and girls will be stronger in opting out.